Monday, February 25, 2008

In Which I File Divorce Papers

I have an overwhelming urge to kick my husband in the head.

John was out of town last Thursday. So, I had to care for both babies all day, then try to orchestrate bedtime with a minimal amount of crying. I managed to get everything done, but it was hard. Izzy is still so little and needy. He wants to be held a lot. And its fairly hard to bath a 20 month old, while holding a 3 month old. But we survived.

Today, John announced that he will be out of town Wednesday and Thursday of this week. I was pissed. I don't fucking understand why he happily agrees to go out of town for his fucking job. Doesn't he understand that I need help?

When I got pissed, he said, "Thanks for the support." What a prick. Where the fuck is my support? AHHHH! At this point, I am so angry with him that I am almost glad he is going to be gone for two days. I don't even want to look at his ugly face.

16 comments:

Eva said...

I'd be pissed, too. That sucks.

Mojavi said...

hmmmmmmm sounds like me and my husband when he was sick LOL!!

He has NO idea how hard your job is! NO F'ING IDEA!

Anth said...

Ooh that is so frustrating.

And I really hate it when my husbands busts out the sarcasm when I am already pissed off.

Amber said...

Wow, I'm sorry! Marriages can be so freakin' difficult sometimes espicially with children around believe me I know the feeling!

Missy Marshmallow said...

What a stinker. Maybe you should flush the toilet when he is in the shower tomorrow morning. Just kidding... :)

Carrie said...

BIG hugs! I wish I was up your way to lend a hand.

Catizhere said...

I almost hate to say it, but....
It does get easier. I've developed a routine with the kids & no matter if he's home or not, we stick to it. Now, the nights that Joe is home, there is a bit more "fun" to be had, but the schedule is there & kids *do* need structure.

Not So Perfect said...

MEN!

Lindz said...

Is that why you told me to stay in the closet and leave my potential flu far away from everyone else? OR was that you? Anyway, be pissed! I would.

Jennifer said...

Hey, we can put our hubbys side by side and kick them at the same time!
During my first trimester I was SO exhausted and therefore slept a LOT. He would say, "Why do you sleep all the time? Can you at least do some laundry??" ^%$%$#$%(&*(

And I just saw your blog. You're hilarious. :)

katydidnot said...

it is just so hard when they're that little, exhausting hard, fucking exhausting hard. i'm sorry. your babies are beautiful.

Nellie said...

Oh my god you make me laugh! I am so sorry... in a way I know exactly how you feel. Greg just started his 3 months of night rotation. So I'm pretty much a single mommy til the end of May. It totally sucks.

Misguided Mommy said...

oh boy lets fuck him up!

Timi said...

That sucks big time. I have no idea how I will care for one when my husband has to go away. Not cool.

Mama Kalila said...

Men... Gotta love them.. but still. Mine plays video games.. Need I say more? The thanks for being supportive part was what got me w/ yours though.. that's not right. I'd be mad too.

kristi said...

If he were my husband, he would be in the hospital recovering from the ass kicking I gave him!