Friday, March 27, 2009

So sorry friend

My good friend Eva had a miscarriage, and my heart aches for her. She is having her D&C today, and I can't stop thinking about my friend. I want to help her, to hug her, to make her feel better. But I can't.

I hate that we live so far apart. I hate that I can't stop by with chocolates. I hate that I can't be there for her right now.

18 comments:

Clare said...

i am so sorry, i know that just knowing you are thinking about her will help!! you are a good friend!

Mama Kalila said...

Oh.. I am sorry to!

Alicia said...

oh that's so sad! I'm so sorry and will be thinking of her during this time.

Kate Coveny Hood said...

Oh no! How sad. I'm glad she has friends like you.

MarvelousMOM said...

I'm so sorry, that is awful. It breaks my heart.

Midwest Mommy said...

Oh that is so hard living so far away. I am thinking of her.

Amanda said...

I'm so sorry for your friend ~ what a difficult time for her.

Much love,
Amanda x

Eva said...

Thanks buddy.

Tabitha said...

Such sad news ~ am thinking of her XX

kristi said...

I am so sorry for your friend. (hugs)

Lainey-Paney said...

you can mail something to her.

why?
because especially if it was a 1st trimester or very early miscarriage, she will likely have very few "keepsakes" from this pregnancy.

This morning....I was looking at this plant that my aunts & grandmother sent us when we lost Masyn. It will be 2 years this July, and I was just thinking about how proud I am of myself for keeping that plant alive this long!

What else was important to me? A really pretty box for my very few keepsakes. I found one & it's been on my nightstand ever since. It's got some cards in it, My original pregnancy tests....some other little momentos.

Okay...there's my unsolicited advice.

miscarriagememories.com
myforeverchild.com

those are some websites that may be helpful if you are looking to get her a little something...

dani said...

so sorry for your friend as well as for you, christy... it's hard not always being able to be there when our loved ones need us.
much love,
dani xxxx

amanda said...

sorry buddy. for you and for eva...

wishing a plane ticket was in your future so you could pop over for a real life hug :)

Rachel said...

oh my goodness. i am so sad for her.

Jiff said...

So so so sorry. Hugs to her.

Cristina Mathers said...

i am so sorry for you friend, and for you because you feel helpless. i have been there, and sometimes the best medicine is to know that people love you and just don't have the words to make it better.

Cristina Mathers said...

PS:lainey painey's advice is spot on.

Nellie said...

oh my goodness, i hadn't been to eva's blog in well over a week and i just caught up on it all. the poor thing, i feel terrible for her...