Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Giving credit where credit is due

I often feel like I harp and harp about my horrible relationship with my mother. But things aren't all bad. Since having Porgie, my mother has made more attempts to stay in contact with me. And she often sends gifts and cards for Porgie.

Although I was reluctant to ask her to come to New Jersey to watch Porgie in November, I have been pleasantly surprised by her response. Initially she agreed to fly to the east coast if we paid for her plane ticket. After researching prices, I called her back and asked her to pay half of the bill. She agreed, but I was positive that she wouldn't save the money.

After asking her to pay half the bill, my mother and I did not speak for about two months. Because of the prolonged silence, I was certain that she had decided not to come to New Jersey. When I scheduled my c-section two weeks ago, I decided to call her to plan specific dates for her arrival and departure.

To my surprise, my mother sounded excited and eager to come to New Jersey. She even volunteered to send her $200 for the plane ticket (which I received a few days ago!). I am so happy that things are working out so smoothly between us - no surprises and no anger.

And honestly, I am excited about seeing her, and I think Porgie will adore her.

9 comments:

Eva said...

That's great. I am so glad!

Amber said...

Aaaww I'm glad! I hope everything works out just the way you want it too!

Em said...

Brilliant glad to hear it!

Misguided Mommy said...

omg omg omg omg what date is yours!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anth said...

Oh, good! I'm so glad!

Suz said...

So glad things are working out!

Bon said...

i'm so happy that the conversation making plans for your little guy's birth went well and that your mum was excited and forthcoming and didn't let you down. hope the visit goes really well, and is all you hope for.

Lainey-Paney said...

Oh, I'm so glad to hear it. I know you've been stressing over this for some time now.

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