tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post6606904656507465483..comments2023-11-05T05:10:26.723-05:00Comments on Cakerwakers: Annoying assholeChristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00977781470147646616noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-82135540338227321102008-10-28T19:32:00.000-04:002008-10-28T19:32:00.000-04:00I feel you. My husband has been an annoying assho...I feel you. My husband has been an annoying asshole as well (and so has his family) but I can't vent about it on the blog because he reads it (why in the world did I ever tell him about it?) and even better, he gave his mom the url, so she reads it. So much for having a place to vent!<BR/><BR/>My husband does the same things...buys whatever he wants, gets free time, etc. And we moms do everything else.Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08093555522867325507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-67926742344712615132008-10-28T11:09:00.002-04:002008-10-28T11:09:00.002-04:00you can vent to us.and to get your own free-time, ...you can vent to us.<BR/>and to get your own free-time, you just get up, get dressed, (on a day that he's off work of course), get your purse & announce to hubby that you are going to ____________. You'll be home in a few hours. "Oh, and while I'm gone, can you make sure...."<BR/><BR/>:)Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-91837787636416413382008-10-28T11:09:00.001-04:002008-10-28T11:09:00.001-04:00you can vent to us.and to get your own free-time, ...you can vent to us.<BR/>and to get your own free-time, you just get up, get dressed, (on a day that he's off work of course), get your purse & announce to hubby that you are going to ____________. You'll be home in a few hours. "Oh, and while I'm gone, can you make sure...."<BR/><BR/>:)Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-76995016883420660292008-10-28T11:09:00.000-04:002008-10-28T11:09:00.000-04:00you can vent to us.and to get your own free-time, ...you can vent to us.<BR/>and to get your own free-time, you just get up, get dressed, (on a day that he's off work of course), get your purse & announce to hubby that you are going to ____________. You'll be home in a few hours. "Oh, and while I'm gone, can you make sure...."<BR/><BR/>:)Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-63188499862223887322008-10-27T21:54:00.000-04:002008-10-27T21:54:00.000-04:00My husband pulls that shit with me all the time. ...My husband pulls that shit with me all the time. I understand he has a son that he needs to spend time with, but he tends to realize he has a wife and daughter at home. What pisses me off the most is after I'm home all day with her, he calls and says "so and so needs to meet for a drink." That inevitably turns into several hours at happy hour, and then he comes home and complains that Ava is in bed and he never gets to see her. Hmmmmm...don't feel sorry for ya bud! <BR/><BR/>And to be nosy (you don't have to answer if you don't want) where is your family from in KY (I have to ask since I live here too.)Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07682905770344895898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-87312151698793087732008-10-27T14:30:00.000-04:002008-10-27T14:30:00.000-04:00My husband is pretty good about taking the baby wh...My husband is pretty good about taking the baby when I have had ENOUGH- but he almost NEVER takes him on errands with him- whereas I take him out with me (almost) EVERY SINGLE TIME. My husband tries to use the excuse that he is going to ride his bike instead of driving- but I think he does it on purpose so he doesn't have to deal with the whole BABY THING.<BR/><BR/>ROWR!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11571662009601634638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-54697984442942091132008-10-27T13:16:00.000-04:002008-10-27T13:16:00.000-04:00Wow. I'd be pissed too.When I was on maternity lea...Wow. I'd be pissed too.<BR/><BR/>When I was on maternity leave and during the newborn phase... Bay came 7 weeks early so I had 7 "extra" weeks of newborn... and I only took 8 weeks with her. I wanted him to take her somewhere, anywhere (to the bookstore, grocery store, etc) so I could get 4-5 hours of uninterrupted sleep. I wanted him to help me when he got home just by changing her diaper or answering her cries. He said, "Well, you've been home all day." WTF. THAT"S MY EFFIN POINT, ASSHOLE! I needed a break too. He just didn't get it.Just Jiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12442961276465790792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-74791163442173212122008-10-27T13:15:00.000-04:002008-10-27T13:15:00.000-04:00My husband can be like that at times too. They ju...My husband can be like that at times too. They just don't seem to realize!!! Thinking of you...Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17408462028112937758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-69322624756538513062008-10-27T10:29:00.000-04:002008-10-27T10:29:00.000-04:00Big Hugs! You've gotten some good advise, so, cal...Big Hugs! You've gotten some good advise, so, call him out on his actions.Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05415109939081901773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-90256457836802885202008-10-27T06:01:00.000-04:002008-10-27T06:01:00.000-04:00Sometimes I dont think the men really realize that...Sometimes I dont think the men really realize that being a SAHM IS a job and we shouldnt have to always be with the kids ALL the time. We as moms should have our free time as well. Just because they "work" outside of the home, doesnt mean we dont work! I think us SAHMs well, all moms in general really do get taken advantage of. They expect that we will be there always for the kids (we will be but you know what I mean) like..if you just said, hey I am going out with my friends have a fun time with the kids...I think he would be like what??? oooh no...so I dont understand why they thinks its ok for them to do it! Sometimes I just wonder what goes through their minds! Sorry it turned into a rant...from what I read, you are a great mom and you deserve some you time too!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02399381239149264755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-10362668828797709732008-10-27T00:05:00.000-04:002008-10-27T00:05:00.000-04:00i understand.glad you were able to let it out.my h...i understand.<BR/>glad you were able to let it out.<BR/>my husband definitely reads and it frustrates me to no end that i can't bitch about him at my place.<BR/><BR/>i've come to the understanding that sometimes, it's easier to go places with the kids by myself...than to go with the husband. because then...i have no expectations that someone might help me.jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03331277496352887978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-716646570300326612008-10-26T21:44:00.000-04:002008-10-26T21:44:00.000-04:00sorry buddy. boys. hubbies. men. truly can suck ca...sorry buddy. <BR/><BR/>boys. hubbies. men. truly can suck can't they?<BR/><BR/>:(<BR/><BR/>i think he owes you a swingset!amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11616598232613837025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-78644158409428543262008-10-26T21:01:00.000-04:002008-10-26T21:01:00.000-04:00I was highly pissed at my hubs today too. They are...I was highly pissed at my hubs today too. They are so selfish at times!kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987700142247888708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-89218727687333176252008-10-26T19:14:00.000-04:002008-10-26T19:14:00.000-04:00Sounds pretty typical. Men do not think to give y...Sounds pretty typical. Men do not think to give you what you need. That's why you just have to TAKE it. Start planning things for yourself and let him know when he needs to be home to take the kids so you can be where you need to be. It works for me.<BR/><BR/>I'd be pissed about that vacation too.Melainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14658427302785069419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-90986229231153606222008-10-26T00:14:00.000-04:002008-10-26T00:14:00.000-04:00AMEN!! As I type this my husband is out of town fo...AMEN!! As I type this my husband is out of town for the third time for the entire weekend in two months.. To make it worse he is at the beach with nothing but guys from work doing god knows what. I'm at home.. house is a wreck.. two kids two and under and I haven't even bathed today. Bastard!! I feel your pain sista!!Alicia W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00580727637588166139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-41728484539559880012008-10-25T23:48:00.000-04:002008-10-25T23:48:00.000-04:00Sorry to hear about the troubles... but I'm glad y...Sorry to hear about the troubles... but I'm glad you vented. Money is a constant topic at our house too. My hubbie is finally starting to come around, but it's definitely tough!Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12460197392520561863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-35351582129165121172008-10-25T22:01:00.000-04:002008-10-25T22:01:00.000-04:00We've all been there. I'm not there now, but I'm s...We've all been there. I'm not there now, but I'm sure I will be again. <BR/><BR/>Inhale,exhale, and try to get some alone time. {hug}Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14599462281364463565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-21758056030609116622008-10-25T20:55:00.000-04:002008-10-25T20:55:00.000-04:00awe! I put the smack down on pete all the time. Bu...awe! I put the smack down on pete all the time. But now that golf is over he will be home...annoying me and picking on me and telling me how to take care of E! I hope you get some alone time. I think you need a day of YOU time.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16291042482677932193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-45582792442366980412008-10-25T20:47:00.000-04:002008-10-25T20:47:00.000-04:00I'm sorry... I feel ya. I've literally had murdero...I'm sorry... I feel ya. I've literally had murderous thoughts about his wow game. I get they need time to unwind... but when do we get any? And better yet... if you say you're going to do something around the house, do it... don't sit there playing a stupid video game. (sorry... I'm a bit perturbed too)Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06877510817457439788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-44963188039706479882008-10-25T20:36:00.001-04:002008-10-25T20:36:00.001-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13077791191801205261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-83724652691899865932008-10-25T20:36:00.000-04:002008-10-25T20:36:00.000-04:00Have you ever checked out this website http://true...Have you ever checked out this website http://truewifeconfessions.blogspot.com/ I like to read it and think that maybe my marriage isn't the only one that has problems!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13077791191801205261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-34669700004468483442008-10-25T20:29:00.000-04:002008-10-25T20:29:00.000-04:00I think every women feels your pain! I don't ever ...I think every women feels your pain! I don't ever talk about my husband on my blog which makes him very angry but then when I try to get him out to do things with the kids he doesn't want to do much and it gets so annoying!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13077791191801205261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-37450272445837384862008-10-25T18:21:00.000-04:002008-10-25T18:21:00.000-04:00It is good to get your feelings out!All men can be...It is good to get your feelings out!<BR/>All men can be total prats at times!!<BR/>love and hugs XXXXXXTabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07674175474109511527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-34573767317578567782008-10-25T18:01:00.000-04:002008-10-25T18:01:00.000-04:00Hey, Christy,that's what your blog is for....and w...Hey, Christy,that's what your blog is for....and what your bloggy friends are here for? Did you feel any better once you got it typed out? No? I wouldn't have either. That is pretty selfish! I'm a single mom...and you're sounding like me.... I think I would go crazy if my mom and dad didn't take Zander overnight every once in awhile. I would never get my projects done....and sometimes..its nice to just sit at home.....by myself....just me...well, me and my dog and 2 cats....but they aren't as needy as Z! <BR/><BR/>Anywho....hope you get the plans for KY all ironed out!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-83490801551240847542008-10-25T17:53:00.000-04:002008-10-25T17:53:00.000-04:00Sucks. Totally know what you mean. Husbands. I gue...Sucks. Totally know what you mean. Husbands. <BR/><BR/>I guess judging from his reaction today you'll find out if he still reads the blog! I say tell him all this stuff and tell him to figure out a solution.Antropólogahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01720065905801369495noreply@blogger.com