tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post3320703138276139029..comments2023-11-05T05:10:26.723-05:00Comments on Cakerwakers: One of the many skeletons in my closetChristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00977781470147646616noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-26119448582590750322009-12-27T20:13:31.877-05:002009-12-27T20:13:31.877-05:00It's really beyond comprehension the way some ...It's really beyond comprehension the way some people choose to respond (or not) to their own children.msprimadonna67https://www.blogger.com/profile/04987221270784648882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-60982067513788429332009-12-17T13:38:12.817-05:002009-12-17T13:38:12.817-05:00i know your question was probably wholely rhetoric...i know your question was probably wholely rhetorical, christy; but, i would surmise he feared knowing anything about you. men really are cowards... especially with matters of the heart.<br />more than likely, he was scared that knowing/seeing you would create a yearning or a bond, which would make his life more complicated. hence, not seeing you was easier.<br />you know... that is why most women are advised not to see the babies they give up for adoption.<br />i am relieved for you that you have been able to, for the most part, compartmentalize him in much the same way he has you. <br />it is HIS greater loss, though.<br />much love and a hug,<br />danidanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09238327752920852333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-11579222584309998532009-12-12T14:45:11.762-05:002009-12-12T14:45:11.762-05:00I cannot answer your question, i cannot start to u...I cannot answer your question, i cannot start to understand it.<br /><br />My 7 year old neice does not have her dad around, he was sort of there the first 2 years then moved away. For a while he phoned once a year but then stopped that. He moans about my sister , how horrible she is and now and then sends her a message saying he will go for custody but never makes any attempt to be in her life. He does not pay child support, every time he starts working and the child support agency catch up with him he quits the job. My neice is an amazing girl, i cannot understand why he does not want to be her dad.Laura McIntyrehttp://synchronizationofus.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-39388935238140752412009-12-10T00:22:50.909-05:002009-12-10T00:22:50.909-05:00But---I think that the fact that you are now a par...But---I think that the fact that you are now a parent would certainly make you see your own parents differently. The good, the bad, and to question the motivations behind their actions and choices....all of it. Becoming a parent changed everything for me. EVERYTHING.... So I understand that it would bring feelings to the surface...Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-91902500208506064392009-12-10T00:21:18.569-05:002009-12-10T00:21:18.569-05:00I can't begin to answer that question.I can't begin to answer that question.Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-49948506048084812122009-12-09T20:10:58.673-05:002009-12-09T20:10:58.673-05:00Hello !.
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i ...i wish i had the answer or some wise words....<br /><br />i don't get it either. never will.<br /><br />thankfully you gave your kids john and they will never ever know that feeling or have those questions.amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11616598232613837025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-30956721540511122822009-12-09T14:04:17.804-05:002009-12-09T14:04:17.804-05:00i think it is shocking that a dad would do that to...i think it is shocking that a dad would do that to his own child. it seems very heartless. obviously your mom gave you lots of love to make up for it because it seems like you have a wonderful family!Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15122912209686749354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-58390109236891824852009-12-09T13:39:33.886-05:002009-12-09T13:39:33.886-05:00I don't understand how someone can do that eit...I don't understand how someone can do that either. Mothers especially. I worked in a child support office for a few years and it was the hardest place I've ever worked. Sending smiles :).Nelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00828974510558797156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-43830733911462181102009-12-09T13:31:53.678-05:002009-12-09T13:31:53.678-05:00i can't imagine!! sending you hugs!i can't imagine!! sending you hugs!Clarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425608955769498145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-51393722577818871332009-12-09T13:13:26.694-05:002009-12-09T13:13:26.694-05:00And even more so, he is missing out on awesome gra...And even more so, he is missing out on awesome grandkids.Just Jiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12442961276465790792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-53271225763553374212009-12-09T13:13:14.148-05:002009-12-09T13:13:14.148-05:00I don't get it either. But my guess is that if...I don't get it either. But my guess is that if he had other kids and a wife, then it was "easier" for him to just pay for you and pretend you never existed. Then he wouldn't have to arrange visits with you, swap holidays, etc. It just sucks and unfortunately he missed out on a great daughter.Just Jiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12442961276465790792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-49566492937932974332009-12-09T08:17:17.789-05:002009-12-09T08:17:17.789-05:00Ok, I reread and then saw the answer to my questio...Ok, I reread and then saw the answer to my question. I just don't get it. There are even mothers who do the same thing...how?Laura Marchanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07878325934353943862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5641406268883173289.post-31936318421269726682009-12-09T08:15:04.461-05:002009-12-09T08:15:04.461-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Laura Marchanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07878325934353943862noreply@blogger.com